Happy Humpday — Are you an M or an M?

Message from The Donut Theory by Linda Gillis


Lord, doesn’t it bother you that my sister has left me
to do all the work by myself? Luke 10:40

Jane served as the receptionist and membership secretary in our office. She’d slip behind her desk a few minutes before the office opened, could grab the phone receiver while pulling off her coat and tell the caller what time the Welcome Committee would be meeting, without looking at the calendar. I never needed to water the ivy on my desk, make coffee, or remind her to get ushers lined up for a funeral. At the end of the day, she’d put on her coat and shuffle toward the door yawning and muttering, “I’m pooped.” Her middle name must have been Martha.

Amy helped Jane with the phones and assisted anyone who needed an extra pair of hands. She’d chat with a mother whose child was at choir rehearsal, linger after staff meetings until everyone went back to their office, and as she passed by Jane’s desk, would flash her Shirley Temple smile and recite, “Sorry, Jane, I hope the phones weren’t ringing off the desk.” I wanted to ask her if her middle name was Mary.

A model assistant would be what I call an M&M—a combination of the biblical sisters Mary and Martha, one who shows up on time eager to serve, but knows when to shift into neutral and sit at the knee of someone who needs to talk. An M&M would look for opportunities to make a difference in how well the office runs for everyone.

Some days I’m a Mary; other days a Martha. My goal is to be an M&M.

 Dear Lord, let us learn to be a little of Mary and Martha,


Rhode Islanders love their donuts. The density of donut shops is so thick that there is one shop for every 4,700 residents in the state.

To learn more about The Donut Theory and Souly-4-You by Linda Gillis ministry, please see http://souly4youbylindagillis.com.

About lindagillis

I am a retired church office servant, a writer, speaker for conferences, events, and retreats, and advocate for those who work in the church office. I began writing seriously after winning the 2006 Guideposts Writer's Workshop and being published in "Guideposts" and "Angels on Earth" magazines. I have self-published two book, "The Donut Theory--Meditation and Inspiration for the Church Office" and "Humble Beginnings--Daily Meditation Moments". My other passion is family and traveling to visit family and friends.
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